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Readers comments: A Fabulous, Important Book, Jesper Juul provides parents with such an amazing, simple, and absolutely vital approach to raising children. Readers’ comments: A Fabulous, Important Book. Jesper Juul provides parents with such an amazing and absolutely vital approach to raising. »Your competent child«. Jesper Juul. CHAPTER ONE: FAMILY VALUES. We are at a unique historical crossroads. Across many different societies, the basic.

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This book has been of enormous importance for my family and I believe it should be on the reading list of any parent or parent to be. Most users ever online was 21, at Unfortunately, we don’t, Juul reminds us, and reminds us that the discrepancy might be confusing.

In his book Your Competent Childin English he argues that today’s families are at an exciting crossroads because the destructive values — obedience, physical and emotional violence, and conformity — that governed traditional hierarchical families are being transformed.

You can find my review on my blog Skinship www. Juul is a renowned international authority on the family. But somewhere along the line it grabbed me and drew me into its premise — seeing the damage wrought by parental control over children, at the expense of good relationship.

That being said, I did appreciate the overall message of the book, which is that we need to respect the integ I’m a bit sceptical of psychology in general and as such this book did nothing to change that. I cannot recommend it highly enough. I will now go for his new book I guess This groundbreaking book should be on the shelf of all parents everywhere.

It is better to take plenty of time to reach decisions than to forge hurried compromises in order to establish domestic peace. Defining the different kinds of “integrity” and “responsibility” as if our personalities can be so easily dissected does not really convince me.

It is a punch in the face of “command and control” way of raising kids that most of the people of my generation are raised under. Er zeigt an vielen Beispielen das unsere Kinder uns viele Hinweise geben was wir “falsch” machen, die meisten Eltern diese aber gar nicht war nehmen oder meisten sogar komplett Fehlinterpretieren.


Your Competent Child: Toward New Basic Values for the Family by Jesper Juul

Description A compelling and revolutionary approach to parenting and family dynamics. You might be surprised and recognize jssper in one of the chapters. It has definitely helped me understand myself much better and improve my relationship with co,petent loved ones.

It offers some advice but does not claim that one method in particular is the only correct one. Quotes from Your Competent Ch Jul 05, Stanislav Malchev rated it did not like it.

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Want to Read Currently Reading Read. Resolving Conflicts Between Adults and Children. Amazon Advertising Find, attract, and engage customers. My favorite quote so far I’m underlining the whole book it seems: I’ve read all his books translated in Croatian almost all of his books had been translated in Croatian, I believe it’s because his wife is Croatian and they partly live here. Children are emotionally competent — that is, they always tell the truth about how they are feeling.

I’ve read some poor works before, but at least they had enough value to finish them, while ignoring an undercurrent of disappointment. Amazon Second Chance Pass it on, trade it in, give it a second life.

Your competent child – Jesper Juul

I read the review on your blog and found the website and others via links from there very interesting. I think this is the only right approach because how can there be a simple solution for something as chi,d as family dynamics? Amazon Giveaway allows you to run promotional giveaways in order to create buzz, reward your audience, and attract new followers and customers. Sep 10, Karsten W.

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After only two weeks of using some of the advice from the books, my kids and I work more easily together. Juul’s book articulates the paradigm shift that occurred in my own understanding of what it means to be a Parent. Really opened my eyes to a different way of thinking about parenting.

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Instead we can choose to embrace a new set of values based on the assumption that families must A compelling and revolutionary approach to parenting and family dynamics. At times the English translation doesn’t make for easy reading, however I still give this book 5 stars because it brings a message I wish every parent and every person concerned about creating happy, healthy society would reflect upon.

When we feel unhappy or dissatisfied with a situation in the family, it is almost always because we were unable to convert our loving feelings into loving behavior. Amazon Music Stream millions of songs. Read reviews that mention great book jesper juul competent child parent parents insight relationship offers message parenting upbringing. If you do not understand it read it again.

Learn more about Amazon Prime. Books by Jesper Juul. I was so excited after reading Your competent child that I wrote him an email thanking him for the wonderful book. There are numerous example dialogues where we are told that changing a few words chilld make all the difference between good parenting and bad parenting.

This book is a precedent. The real question is ‘What is good for my relationship with my child? In this important book, Jesper Juul argues that today’s families are at an exciting crossroads.

The most valuable information I took from this book was that “these concepts – integrity, self-esteem, and responsibility – are inseperable” and “respecting children’s self-esteem and personal responsibility”. One of these items ships sooner than the other.

Using examples from families in many different countries, Juul has written a book that challenges parents to see the years with their children as an exciting time of growth and development for the whole family.